Tl:dr — Accordions have brought the “play” back to playing music, and have become the early-retirement hobby I didn’t know I needed.
I’m a trained classical musician with a master’s degree in voice performance and pedagogy, with many years of piano lessons as well. While my experiences with classical music were incredible, it does require strict adherence to the written score, and it requires striving for perfection. None of this was very conducive to playing music just for fun, or improvising or anything. You read the score, you sing/play what’s written. It’s glorious when it all goes well, but feeling judged (especially for your voice, which is so personal) can be crushing. And it is witheringly difficult to make a living as a singer. So, I abandoned it completely 20 years ago in favor of raising my children and working a steady corporate job.
About 4 years ago, a friend invited me to a small, friends-only local Thursday night jam (“the Ramble”) at another friend’s house. I had just been wishing I could add some more fun to my life, so I accepted. When I got there, I realized that it was a terrible disadvantage not to be able to play a stringed instrument of some sort. All the guys there (no other women) played more than one instrument, including guitar, mandolin, dobro, fiddle, banjo, Cajun button box, harmonica, and a special guest one night even played the SAW
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It’s an understatement to say it lit my brain on fire. I loved, loved, loved the joy and energy and FUN, so I kept going back. Within just a couple of weeks, I decided to play the simplest and smallest stringed instrument I could think of — the ukulele — so I would have something to do with my hands other than clap them
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We played together in our friend’s living room every Thursday until Covid hit, and then we moved to having Zoom sessions where we would play FOR (not WITH) each other. This required each of us to choose and learn about 6 new songs a week, which was an excellent challenge, made us all better players, and opened us all up to broader genres.
Eventually, of course, we were able to get together again. I got a little tired of just playing uke, never really adding much to the ensemble (beside singing, which isn’t a small contribution, but still). So I picked up a melodica because it has a keyboard (familiar territory!), which provided some excellent color on certain songs, and my Rambler friends were super enthusiastic about it. Thing is, you can’t sing and play melodica at the same time, so this meant I couldn’t provide harmonies or lead vocals if I was playing it. And I’d sometimes run out of air for long phrases.
The solution? Well, I think you all know. CUE THE ACCORDION
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Now then, I‘m one of those people who grew up thinking Lawrence Welk and all the accordion polka stuff was just the squarest of square. That accordions were ridiculous. So I didn’t admit to anyone that I was thinking of getting one. But listening to YouTube recordings of some of the songs we were playing, it was obvious to me that an accordion would be such a great addition to our Ramble. I started reading and researching and asking questions online, and for my birthday late last year I snagged an inexpensive little student model (26/48, 2/4 LM Giulietti) that had popped up for sale locally.
Once again — brain fireworks! I love the challenge of playing it, and for the first time I find I’m willing to improvise solo breaks in our Ramble. I’m willing to try something new, even if it might not be perfection. Much credit for that goes to the guys in the Ramble, who couldn’t care less if a person bombs their solo. Our only goal is fun, and this has turned music completely around for me.
I’ve now acquired a 2nd accordion (41/120, 3/4 LMM ladies size Larenti) and I’m excited to learn how to do my own repairs, because I do love a good puzzle. This is turning out to be a terrific early-retirement hobby, and I am just jazzed and thrilled and grateful for it.
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